The Gate of Truth
Other Names: Energy, Coming to Meet/Attraction of Opposites
Biology: spleen and lymphatic system
Archetypal Insight from the I Ching, by Ma Deva Padma; when this description resonates, a shift from novice expression to wisdom is likely imminent:
Mutual attraction is an indication of compatibility but does not necessarily guarantee it. Inexplicably, attraction can disappear as easily as it appeared, leaving both parties wondering “what was that all about?” When two people are genuinely attracted, the ideal would be to approach each other from positions of equality and independence, ready and willing to meet on equal ground. When the pull of attraction is accompanied by enough patience to let things develop naturally, true friendship can result. And whatever else is going on, in this type of atmosphere any commitments made are based on respect for each partner’s uniqueness and independence. Such a relationship emphasizes maintaining balance and supporting each other’s conscious evolution, rather then excess, over-emotionalism, and unconscious behavior.
We all know about the enticing nature of what’s been forbidden, and the not-so-attractive outcome after going there. Temptation may start innocently as curiosity or flirtation, but it can become an irresistible force when a desire is on the verge of being realized. And when the enticement is strong enough and self-awareness ignored, we can rapidly fall into a state of eager self-delusion, unable to stay in touch with reality, rationalizing every word and gesture to justify our actions. Acting out of passion alone considerably increases the chances of disillusionment and regret later on.
As soon as the magnetic pull of temptation succumbs to a sense of urgency, at least one of the partners has become heavily invested in a particular outcome. The easy atmosphere that would engender trust is then replaced by pressure and coercive tactics that undermine it and ultimately weaken the relationship itself. Once you resort to manipulative seduction you’ve compromised your own self-respect and the integrity of the other. However inconsequential seduction may appear initially, once the magic evaporates you’re not only left with a bitter taste, but must deal with the demands for a resolution. Needless to say, the return to normalcy and a firm foundation can be traumatic and a long, drawn-out affair when we deny the part we’ve played in any deception, place blame elsewhere, and avoid taking responsibility for our naïveté or impulsiveness.
A powerful attraction deserves to be acknowledged, but from a cooler, uninvested perspective. Take time to consider your evolving feelings regarding the other. Where there is balance there is unity and progress, but to become affiliated with a person of weak character out of your own unawareness would be a pity.
Spiritual traditions acknowledge in a variety of ways the central importance of learning to unite wisdom and passion, the head and heart. The sacred art of Tibetan Buddhism, for example, depicts the literal coupling of deities, representing the perfectly balanced, ecstatic union of two equally powerful energies. This image can serve as a reminder of the power of conscious consummation.
The Changes (additional insight for applying the Line of an activated Gate)
Line 1 – Investigator/Information
Be alert to anything that might be undermining well-being. Every time your mind sweeps you up in extremes, take note and nip it in the bud. Otherwise, out of unawareness regarding the power of your own thoughts, you could easily dally in little intrigues that would soon become big dramas.
Line 2 – Responder/Hermit
Negative thinking is like a virus; it needs to be checked when it first appears so that it doesn’t spread. You must be very diligent to clear your mind of inner complaints and judgments. At the same time, avoid becoming influenced by someone else’s unhealthy attitude.
Line 3 – Explorer
You’ve become preoccupied, and the direction you’re attracted to is prompting hesitation and uncertainty. The situation is uncomfortable, but if you press forward, you are choosing to resist the natural support of Tao. It is best to become clear within your own mind before making any moves.
Line 4 – Stabilizer
You may be feeling bugged by others, but your intolerance is a reflection of your own small-mindedness. To shut others out by judging them as insignificant, inappropriate, or intolerable would be like shooting yourself in the leg. You may well need their support later on, so practice tolerance and forgiveness.
Line 5 – Visionary Leader
Truth doesn’t need advertising or proof. Continue with what you know to be right, and don’t get sidetracked by attempting to impress others with your efforts or your views.
Line 6 – Adept/Role Model
You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t – this is one of those times when you will be judged unfavorably whatever you do. It would go against your grain to postpone now because of others’ opinions, so make a decision and stick to it; once you do you won’t look back.
Other aspects
Astrological Sign: Scorpio
Dynamics: Gentle (wood/wind) + Yang/Creative (heaven)
Color: jade green + white
Attributes: penetrating, subtle, influencing, dispersing + authority, strength, power, inspiring
Action(s): to penetrate and empower
Developmental: adult + transformation/death